Thank you for your input. You make some very strong points and I will definitely take them into consideration for part 2.
Journal, Diary, & Blogging / Find a good woman
Why do men say that they want a good woman, but date whores? I think that there is confusion when it comes to what men really want. They want a woman to cook, clean, and stay home with the kids, yet they date women who will sleep with anyone and party all night long. I would like to offer my opinion on the situation from personal experience both as a woman and someone who has discussed the situation with many different types of men.
First off let’s talk about what a good woman is. A good woman is faithful, holds her man down no matter what, takes care of her man and treats him with love and respect. A good woman can chill with your friends but also with your family. If you want a woman that you can bring home to your mother, you probably are not going to find her in a strip club or sitting with her legs open at the bar. A good woman is not going to sleep with you within hours of meeting you, and she is not willing to let your friends hit too. A good woman holds her head high, has self respect and respect for others. She can hold her tong when it is not appropriate to say whatever comes to mind, yet she will stand up for herself and her man. A good woman is not sleeping with every man, woman, and dog in town, she treasures and respects her body. She doesn’t want to see her man with anyone but her; she holds him as a king but makes sure she is the queen.
When a man is looking for a woman in the club and goes straight for the girl dropping it in a mini skirt, he’s not trying to find a good girl. If a woman is willing to sleep with anyone who wants to, she is not respecting herself. A woman who shows her body to anyone who is willing to look is not someone who has high self-esteem; she is just looking for attention. Any woman who is willing to have friends with benefits does not respect the idea of a relationship and will probably not be faithful in a relationship.
I could go on forever with different analogies but I will leave it at this. There is a difference between a good woman that you get into a relationship with and a woman you just sleep with. If you want to be happy, find a good woman and stop trying to mess with these fast women.
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AmyWalker reviewed Version 1 -
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I couldn’t agree more to be honest.
I actually wrote something about Women but not in the same category its more about women who have low self esteem and shouldn’t care about what people think.
Anyways this makes a definite statement but I don’t think men are gonna think any different til the time their 40-50 yrs when they’re well on their way of their used by date to even think about settling down I mean yeah there are genuine men out there but not many.
Oh well I thought this was a good piece, like to read more of your stuff
Amy
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I_Like_Rice reviewed Version 1 -
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I like your words. Particularly how you start of your paragraphs. You start the blog well with the question that any men and women want to know the answer to.
i think the topic could even be applied to both genders, many woman date jerks too (especially the woman and jerks i know!)
An observation i’ve made time and time again is that people often ask “where are all the nice guys/girls?” Answer normally is the nice guys/girls are their friends that they aren’t interested in, that they pass over time and time again whilst looking for spark
It’s a good blog. I think you could flesh this out a little more, just a little bit. Reason i say this is that the piece tells me a few things but it doesn’t ask me anything, or make me question myself or my friends motives. You state there is confusion in what men want… i thought maybe you could flesh that idea out by incorporate this in by asking the reader the question of “Have you ever asked yourself why do you want a women who is a slut?” “Why do you go for that women.” “Why go for a woman that you know won’t make you happy at all… will probably leave you feeling empty.”
The only question at the moment is the first sentence. Questions are a powerful tool in opening eyes to mistakes they make.
thanks for the good read!
npr33 reviewed Version 1 -
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hmm.. have you never heard the crazy to hot ration arguement. the crazier a girl is the hotter she is. And a good woman can be oh so many things in oh so many ways. some guys want that good woman. they want that girl that can be one of the guys and that can also turn his head. it is a tragic reality that those women are often overlooked, and i don’t completely agree with the madonna/whore thing. everyone is a combination. there are a lot of good women out there that have slept around and are still able to stay faithful and be a good woman to the good man. it’s not an easy question. it’s not an easy answer. it will never be black and white, but it is certainly worth discussing.
nelson1 reviewed Version 1 -
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I totally agree with you, though some good woman go to pub, I like singing and regularly frequent karaoke bars (I do not sleep around or get my clothes off on first dates either, I go out to socialise with my friends, also a womans perrogative), and yes there are lots of women who go to bars who are not respectful of either themselves or a bloke, the blokes also have to be good men riciprocating thegood womans behaviors for relationships to work, I have yet to find a good man in those bars. I do think we decent woman are a rare breed these days and often seen as strange because we do not sleep around.
There is excessive spacing para 3
DEM_Ravager reviewed Version 1 -
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This was a really powerful piece, mainly because it was written by a woman and spoke from the heart. Really, we men are at first attracted sexually to women, and a great deal of guys haven’t even reached the level of maturity when they look for emotional attraction and begin to judge character and self instead of body.
You make a great point with this.
Nytefist7 reviewed Version 1 -
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I like it overall, and I certainly agree with the message. The writing is sound, solid and supports your theme. It is a little repetitive towards the third paragraph..you could maybe just put the “friends with benefits” part in the second paragraph and go without the rest which is ground you’ve already covered and proceed to your final summation.
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